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Min and my lil sis mentioned something about update so here you go guys.

Friends. People around you that you mingle and socialize.

Playmates

At the early years, let's say in the range we started walking until early elementary school years. Yeah little us are so simple-minded that we befriended with anyone who played with us. Stats, looks, etc are pushed aside because duh we are still innocent and we didn't actually see all of that. Yet.

Starting to reach the end of elementary, our 'friends' started to accumulate in different groups. This is the early stage of life; in the friends department. We are quite confused with the order yet we maintain the relations around us. Interact like we normally do.

Our self-influence

High school; the final stage before we face the outside world. This is where the game starts to evolve. The accumulation, I mean. Before you know it, there are; the popular, rich bastards, the nerdies, the badass, loners, etc kind of group. They are so obvious. Even if you try to ignore, the label in their faces are so readable (if they are in their group or you have the ability to read them like a book). Everyone cares for stats and looks and bla bla in this range.

In the teen years, influencing peers is a thing. 'Accidental' influence exist among themselves. That is why we need to choose good friends. One thing or another, we affect each other. Take your pick.

Define; true (real) or false (just a title)

Ask for help. Watch whoever comes first. That is what define him as a true friend. They stick to each other no matter what. Stay with us whenever we are happy nor sad. The false type is the ones we converse but when something happens, we could not count much on them. To joy of having many friends but only some of them willing to give a hand.


Opinion. Sorry if it seemed offensive. For the record, I rarely mingle because I don't want too, not because I couldn't. This is sort of a view from afar plus one of my coursemates have lots of friends and I wonder who helps him when he needed help? His girlfriend? /typical him/ /roles eyes/ Strangers made me feel like I have a big sign on the forehead says "Look at me until you made a hole"

P/s: Finally renovate my Tumblr <--click

Farewell. Jaa nee.